Official Church Resources
Official Church Guidance for Bishops: https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/bc/content/shared/english/pdf/ssa/14413_000.pdf
From the Church’s Gospel Topics with plenty of additional talks and links: https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/manual/gospel-topics/same-sex-attraction?lang=eng
Same Sex Attraction: https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/topics/gay/?lang=eng
Transgender: https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/life-help/transgender?lang=eng
Community Resources
North Star: Resources and a supportive community for those who are struggling with same sex attraction or gender dysphoria. https://www.northstarlds.org/online-communities
Books
Without the Mask: Coming Out and Coming Into God's Light: https://www.amazon.com/Without-Mask-Coming-Into-Light/dp/1629727849
That We May Be One: A Gay Mormon's Perspective On Faith and Family: https://deseretbook.com/p/cd-that-we-may-be-one?variant_id=155907-paperback
Podcasts (search for them on your favorite podcast app)
Listen, Learn & Love